Our Generation!

I don’t understand our generation at all. I see that people leave their friends because they had small fight or a misunderstanding. People get angry on their parents when they are guided by their parents. People break up just because they are not ready for a serious relationship.

People don’t know where they are heading to in life just because they don’t know about their goals clearly. And if some people know about their goals they aren’t willing to take steps towards it because they want to enjoy “the moment” and just go with the flow. What they don’t understand is life isn’t about going with the flow, it’s about how you prepare yourself for each step you are taking. It’s about being disciplined in life.

Now a days I see that people don’t understand how important is to be disciplined in life. Let me tell you something, every person who has succeeded in life was disciplined. The only conclusion I can say is most of the people don’t want to make efforts at all to achieve anything, they just complain about everything and leave upto destiny.

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Understand please!

Now a days I see people say to each other like ‘You have changed now a days’ or ‘Why aren’t we talking like we used to?’ or ‘ Why have you distanced yourself from everyone?’ and the list goes on. Remember that sometimes people needs to be away from everyone for a while. It’s not purposely done by them. It’s a need. A basic need. And that’s called personal space. People need time to clearly about what’s happening around them. They need to know about themselves better. They need to know where their energy is going. They need to know who they really are. So don’t blame them or yourself that they act like this. If next time someone needs time for themselves, don’t be rude and give them time

Failure!

There are some days when we face a failure. A failure in studies. A failure in a relationship or failure in any other thing. We fail in things because sometimes we are not ready for it completely or maybe sometimes it’s just a God’s plan for a better things to come in future. Sometimes we are so engrossed in thinking about the failure we faced that we don’t try to think of other things around us and we just focus on the failure we think about only the bad things that has happened to us. We feel like our world is falling apart, it’s not I say you. Failure is not something that you should be ashamed of. Failure is not something that should give you a feeling to end your life. Failure is not something that will put you down in front of others forever. There’s something which makes us stronger, which helps us to learn more and more. Failure is something that will be a turning point of your life. Overcoming Failure is tough for some people and some people just wants to make it up by thinking more and more of it. If you want to over come failure you need to first thing accept it. If you have failed in exam accept it. If you have failed in a relationship accept it. Then try to learn from that failure because everything happens for a reason so if you have failed in anything it means that you need to learn from it. Failure is like you were standing but you have fall down suddenly but that doesn’t mean that you will always sit down you need to make a strong come back again because Failure is a first step to success. You just have failed in one part of your life that doesn’t mean that you should focus on it everyday, you should overcome it and you should try to look at the positive things more and make your life better.

Balancing the emotions!

People say you to be happy all the time, isn’t it? They say ‘it’s okay’ ‘chill out’ ‘you are just overthinking’ and blah blah. And you agree to them easily right? But let me tell you something you’re a human being and God has given you so many emotions and you need to feel every emotion at some point of your life. Please understand, that a person can’t be happy all the time. You need to feel every emotion such as, anger, happiness, sadness, disgust, fear and many more. Don’t say sorry to anyone for feeling any of these emotions. You need to cry when you feel like. You need to get angry when you feel like. People who say you to be happy ‘all the time’ don’t understand what life is all about. But also, it’s not that you should be happy always or sad always. There should be a balance alright? Balance between good and bad. Balance between positive and negative. Balance between being happy and being sad. Life is all about balancing. Balance in your life doesn’t come as a supernatural power but it comes through practing everyday. Try to keep balance and maybe some day you will understand the true meaning of life.

Expectations!

People often ask me should we expect if we are in a relationship and I think ‘yes why should you not expect anything’ if you are in a relationship it’s necessary to make feel each other happy, loved and important. There are two types of expectations, first material things like gifts and taking out, feeling special, giving surprises and second are the real things like love, care, understanding, trust and time. There’s nothing wrong if we are expecting from our partner because when you are in a relationship it’s very important to expect certain things like they are going to be with you when you need them. You need to expect communication when a problem arises. You need to expect care from them. You need to expect that they should understand you when you don’t feel yourself somedays. You need to expect them to just talk with you when you are feeling low. You need to expect everything that makes you feel worthy. You need to expect all the things which you feel that in a relationship are very important but don’t just keep the expectations to yourself thinking they will know everything because they can’t read your mind. You need to communicate this expectations with your partner too because if you don’t communicate how will they know that what are you expecting in a relationship. You should not only say but also listen to their expectations too. So expect things which you think that will make your relationship stronger but not those that will lead to break your relationship.

A letter to myself on women’s day!

Thank you for coming into this world. Thank you for standing again when this cruel world dragged you down. Thank you for not listening to stupid people who
gave wrong advices. Thank you for not letting a single boy take away your dreams by breaking your heart. Thank you for crying whenever you felt to cry. Thank
you for encouraging every person who you have met. Thank you for not letting society take teach you how to behave. Thank you for always following your heart. Thank you for putting a smile on people’s face. Thank you for being yourself in this fake world. Thank you for speaking for yourself when people tried to stop you. Thank you for believing that miracles do exist. Thank you for taking first step to break the unnecessary rules of this society. Thank you for always believing in yourself. Thank you for always being there for me when no one else was. Thank you for making me believe in love again. Thank you foralways motivating me. Thank you for alwaysgiving the exams for which you thought you would fail. Thank you for overcoming every fear of your life. Thank you for respecting yourself when the world didn’t. Thank you for being loyal to me. Thank you
for being beautiful, brave and bold.

Still in the mood of new year!

Everything has changed so much from the time exactly one year back. Someone has a new person in their life to give them happiness again. Someone got their love which they had been dreaming of. Someone fell in love again. Someone is with the one with whom they always wanted to be. Someone has achieved their goal they have been working on it. Someone has conquered their dreams which have given them sleepless nights. I hope everyone is at the place they want to be. And if they’re not I hope this year they will have the happiness they always wanted and needed. Till then have patience. And enjoy the little things in life.