Failure!

There are some days when we face a failure. A failure in studies. A failure in a relationship or failure in any other thing. We fail in things because sometimes we are not ready for it completely or maybe sometimes it’s just a God’s plan for a better things to come in future. Sometimes we are so engrossed in thinking about the failure we faced that we don’t try to think of other things around us and we just focus on the failure we think about only the bad things that has happened to us. We feel like our world is falling apart, it’s not I say you. Failure is not something that you should be ashamed of. Failure is not something that should give you a feeling to end your life. Failure is not something that will put you down in front of others forever. There’s something which makes us stronger, which helps us to learn more and more. Failure is something that will be a turning point of your life. Overcoming Failure is tough for some people and some people just wants to make it up by thinking more and more of it. If you want to over come failure you need to first thing accept it. If you have failed in exam accept it. If you have failed in a relationship accept it. Then try to learn from that failure because everything happens for a reason so if you have failed in anything it means that you need to learn from it. Failure is like you were standing but you have fall down suddenly but that doesn’t mean that you will always sit down you need to make a strong come back again because Failure is a first step to success. You just have failed in one part of your life that doesn’t mean that you should focus on it everyday, you should overcome it and you should try to look at the positive things more and make your life better.

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Balancing the emotions!

People say you to be happy all the time, isn’t it? They say ‘it’s okay’ ‘chill out’ ‘you are just overthinking’ and blah blah. And you agree to them easily right? But let me tell you something you’re a human being and God has given you so many emotions and you need to feel every emotion at some point of your life. Please understand, that a person can’t be happy all the time. You need to feel every emotion such as, anger, happiness, sadness, disgust, fear and many more. Don’t say sorry to anyone for feeling any of these emotions. You need to cry when you feel like. You need to get angry when you feel like. People who say you to be happy ‘all the time’ don’t understand what life is all about. But also, it’s not that you should be happy always or sad always. There should be a balance alright? Balance between good and bad. Balance between positive and negative. Balance between being happy and being sad. Life is all about balancing. Balance in your life doesn’t come as a supernatural power but it comes through practing everyday. Try to keep balance and maybe some day you will understand the true meaning of life.

Expectations!

People often ask me should we expect if we are in a relationship and I think ‘yes why should you not expect anything’ if you are in a relationship it’s necessary to make feel each other happy, loved and important. There are two types of expectations, first material things like gifts and taking out, feeling special, giving surprises and second are the real things like love, care, understanding, trust and time. There’s nothing wrong if we are expecting from our partner because when you are in a relationship it’s very important to expect certain things like they are going to be with you when you need them. You need to expect communication when a problem arises. You need to expect care from them. You need to expect that they should understand you when you don’t feel yourself somedays. You need to expect them to just talk with you when you are feeling low. You need to expect everything that makes you feel worthy. You need to expect all the things which you feel that in a relationship are very important but don’t just keep the expectations to yourself thinking they will know everything because they can’t read your mind. You need to communicate this expectations with your partner too because if you don’t communicate how will they know that what are you expecting in a relationship. You should not only say but also listen to their expectations too. So expect things which you think that will make your relationship stronger but not those that will lead to break your relationship.

A letter to myself on women’s day!

Thank you for coming into this world. Thank you for standing again when this cruel world dragged you down. Thank you for not listening to stupid people who
gave wrong advices. Thank you for not letting a single boy take away your dreams by breaking your heart. Thank you for crying whenever you felt to cry. Thank
you for encouraging every person who you have met. Thank you for not letting society take teach you how to behave. Thank you for always following your heart. Thank you for putting a smile on people’s face. Thank you for being yourself in this fake world. Thank you for speaking for yourself when people tried to stop you. Thank you for believing that miracles do exist. Thank you for taking first step to break the unnecessary rules of this society. Thank you for always believing in yourself. Thank you for always being there for me when no one else was. Thank you for making me believe in love again. Thank you foralways motivating me. Thank you for alwaysgiving the exams for which you thought you would fail. Thank you for overcoming every fear of your life. Thank you for respecting yourself when the world didn’t. Thank you for being loyal to me. Thank you
for being beautiful, brave and bold.

Still in the mood of new year!

Everything has changed so much from the time exactly one year back. Someone has a new person in their life to give them happiness again. Someone got their love which they had been dreaming of. Someone fell in love again. Someone is with the one with whom they always wanted to be. Someone has achieved their goal they have been working on it. Someone has conquered their dreams which have given them sleepless nights. I hope everyone is at the place they want to be. And if they’re not I hope this year they will have the happiness they always wanted and needed. Till then have patience. And enjoy the little things in life.

Life is worth fighting for!

And sometimes you just need to stop .You need stop everything you are doing right now. You need to stop and stand for some time and look around you. Do you see those happy faces around and do you think that they are really happy from their heart? Maybe some. Don’t think that you are the only one who is going through bad days, no everyone goes through. I know it hurts to know that people go through so much but still they put a pretty smile on their faces but how long are you going to put a smile on the face, for how long are you going to keep fooling yourself, for how long are you going to have the happy mask on your face. I ask you from whom are you trying to hide, from whom are you trying to hide your emotions ,your struggles and your pain. People go through many things in their life, some people become more mature at a very young age and sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s not so good. You wake up everyday you struggle you fight you have battles with yourself ,with others and then at the end of the day you are just exhausted and you just want to shut everything. When you wake up in the morning you feel like “This is not the life I want to live”. You’re confused about everything you don’t know what are you doing with your life anymore, you don’t know what’s happening to you, you don’t know what God has planned for you but let me say one thing with time everything will fall in its place and maybe few things which you are unaware of are already falling into places without your acknowledgement. You need to struggle everyday because you know what that’s making you stronger. You should be proud of yourself that every day you go through so many things but still every morning you wake up to fight another battle and you know what the secret is the struggle you face everyday is worth it. I promise you the struggles you go through are not going in vain. Face every problem has a challenge which will just make you more bold more beautiful more stronger. Just one thing don’t give up ever because there will be a day when you will look into the mirror and you will say to yourself “Yes I have made it” and in that moment you will understand everything you have been through. There will be a day when people will look up to you and they will say that you are an inspiration to them, just to hear those words live your life because the smile on their face because of you will be worth it. And remember, this life is worth fighting for.

Why Judge?

You have judged that girl just because she was was quiet.
You have judged that boy just because he was sitting in park alone.
You have judged that girl just because she didn’t dress well.
You have judged that boy just because he was too friendly with you.
You have judged that girl just because you saw her with a guy.
You have judged that boy just because he was smoking.
You have judged that girl just because she was drinking.
You have judged that boy just because he made wrong decisions in life.

You have judged each and every person you meet or seefor the first time. I ask why do you do that? What do you get from it? Happiness? Peace? Satisfaction? And based upon these judgements you start to either like or dislike that person.And later on you start spreading rumours about them to everyone. And there that person won’t even have an idea about anything. Do you even know what he or she could have gone through? Do you know their story? Maybe yes. Maybe no. Maybe slightly. Just maybe right? Is this what you do in your life, judging people? How would you feel if you’re judged by people everyday? Awful, isn’t it? Stop it. Right now. Be kind to others. If you don’t know anything about them then stop talking about them.You have your own life. Live it in a right way.

This is to the people who are being judged. You know you have a beautiful soul. People will always have opinions about everything. But don’t start to doubt yourself please. They are just having a “idea” about you, they don’t know your “reality”. You are the only person who knows about yourself truly. And that’s enough. You’re living your own life based on your decisions and not on people’s opinions. And honestly that is great. People will only judge you and won’t make you feel anything. Only you can choose what you want to feel. And choose to be happy. And someday if you feel judged then learn to accept apology even though they didn’t ask for. Because forgiveness will make you feel happy and better always. People who give steadfast opinions will have a tough life anyway than you. Always be yourself. Remember that God made you and nobody has a right to judge you.